Children, General, Parenting

Agreed no place like home, but…

There’s no place like home sweet home!! Well known, well felt ! Inside this bubble wrap, life is bliss for most of us.

The little smarties have always a way with things, not willing to accompany their folks to places where their friends are missing in action or simply not wanting to take a step out of their comfort zone if there is a slightest suspicion about the place in their minds or even the people! While their feeling rather comfortable in their set up is lovely and something all of us love and can relate to, the forced push out of their cocoons may be a good push towards new learnings.

We adults have witnessed this in many forms in their lives. The more one is away from his cozy zone, the more adjustments are learnt. The more one is exposed to newer foods, the wider the palate becomes. Pushing ourselves out of our zones to newer domains have only enriched our experiences! We probably need to give our minds a big whack when thoughts like ” oh, they may get bored!”, ” they may not like the food”, ” what’s in there for them” etc. creep in.

Kids have an immense tendency for adaptability and we must let them experience some not- so- comfortable situations. I have also noticed that some pre conceived, pre felt notions associated with road/ plane travels, specific food mindsets, the can have/ can’t have lists, the can do/ can’t do things fade away way faster when the exposure levels are higher. In other words, when the little ones are made to do things outside of their comfort zones, they sometimes actually surprise us!

So, it’s absolutely ok on our part if we sometimes , out of necessity or out of choice,drag them to places where they are likely to experience boredom. It just might make them a bit more adaptable to people, places and things around and the ever so important social quotient may also go up! You may be scorned upon and given the “not good mommy today ” tag so be it!

Children, General, Parenting

PICK ME UP!

My take is if you really want your child to do/ experience /read something, make it so readily accessible for them that they see it all around and because it’s there there, there are higher chances of them going for it! My big reference here is the oh so lovely habit of reading in kids, something which is slowly fading away. Since this happens to be a rather important element of vocabulary building, it needs to be reinforced time and again and somehow included in their daily routine list.

Summer break is a great time to reintroduce this habit( if it’s not already one) simply because there is a good bit of free time available . The long, hot and lazy days can be well spent with the many titles and authors they’ve heard of from their dear friends, their great breed of peers and of course our preferred authors can also be squeezed in . Once they are in sight, chances of they going through them may be higher. Basically, if they see the good old Enid Blytons, Hardy boys , Malory towers etc. on their shelves, they are likely to pick them up! The neighbourhood library does serve the purpose but to stock up on ones own page turners is a wonderful feeling. The ownership of any thing gives one a far bigger high than borrowed stuff, more so if the titles are to be read and re read many times over.

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Summer holidays are also the time to pull out all those hidden card games, those scrap books, the half done needlework, those cut and paint and make your own chimes, fridge magnets, bead jewellery etc etc. The minute these objects are seen, the activity triggers reignite and holidays are well spent, both in terms of time and pleasure! It’s easy accessibility that drives the kids. Out of sight is truly out of mind for them. So, while I have things strewn around everywhere, I look at it as time and imagination well spent. It is messy and scattered, but am ok with it as long as the neatly tucked away stuff is put to use. The slow and easy days seem lighter and calmer and with kids around at home during their break, one really couldn’t ask for anything more!!